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Hello Lovelies, How have you been? it's been a while, I apologize and admit I miss you guys. Did y'all miss me? Today we will be learning a very common issue/error I have noticed, I admit I was a victim (sometimes still) of this wrong defect in attitude it is.... tada! accepting or rejecting compliments.  Lets's get right into it. A random convo: Me: "Your dress is very nice" Her: " This dress is like so old, I bought it in Yaba, bendown select that year, it is not very expensive jare" Me in my mind: 😔, just say thank you and keep it moving.  Familiar?... Most people give compliments because they want you to feel good. But, if you're like most people, those well-meaning kind words may be hard to hear sometimes.  When you receive a compliment from someone you admire, your first reaction may be to deflect the attention. For example, when a friend expresses their gratitude for your help, you may be prone to redirect the com...

Dear lovelies! How have you been? I missed you guys so much. Today we will be wearing our Psychic hats as we try to interpret other people's body language towards us as we also try to manage ours during communication. Let's all Read, Enjoy & Learn from Dr. Travis Bradberry, an emotional intelligence expert. Body language provides an amazing amount of information on what other people are thinking  if  you know what to look for. And who hasn’t wanted to read people’s minds at some point? You already pick up on more body language cues than you’re consciously aware of. UCLA research has shown that only 7% of communication is based on the actual words we say. As for the rest, 38% comes from tone of voice and the remaining 55% comes from body language. Learning how to become aware of and to interpret that 55% can give you a leg up with other people. When you’re working hard and doing all you can to achieve your goals, anything that can give you an edge is powerful and w...

Hello Lovelies! I am back and I'm super excited so I am starting with plenty accolades to my favorite football club, Liverpool football club!. This extraordinary club showed Team work and Tenacity from 3-0 down on aggregate against Barcelona Football Club. The most important lesson for me is the reiteration of NEVER GIVE UP!. Never give up on others and most importantly never give up on yourself. Let's get into today's topic, this week we are talking about Happiness, wanna be happy? do these ten things & even more according to Dr.Travis Bradberry to achieve a happy attitudinal change.  We’re always chasing something—be it a promotion, a new car, or a significant other. This leads to the belief that, “When (blank) happens, I’ll finally be happy.” While these major events do make us happy at first, research shows this happiness doesn’t last. A study from Northwestern University measured the happiness levels of regular people against those who had won large lott...

Hello Lovelies! How you doing? Today we're vulnerable and digging deep into our super emotional side. This post is a short literature that was inspired by the depth and wells of love emotions that we all face. Whether male or female everybody has once loved someone who never returned the favor. And as such, i'd love to hear from you? write my next post for me, tell me your experience about the love you gave and never got back to you. Unrequited Love: One sided love, not returned. Hey You, I love you, when & how it happened is still a mystery could it be the day you laid on my proverbial disvirgined couch with my head right on your chest and you were vulnerable so vulnerable I had promised myself and God that I will take care of your heart and help shape you to a sweet refined man? I love you, don't you see it when how I light up like a bubble of stars when you come around? I love you, even though you can't see my heart make a flip when yo...

Hello Lovelies!💝 I am here again and this time I dabbled into some motivational writing, to pay for this masterclass (Lol) all you have to do is read, comment and share. Hope! defined as   a strong and confident expectation, a certain apostolic man in a Sage Book further buttressed  .......... .. for why does one also hope for what he sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, with perseverance we wait eagerly for it  . ........... H ope, This 4 letter word is the first born in the family of both Faith & Love, while Faith is the middle sister, the propeller, the one that births action and Love being the most important younger sister that must be born and must be accepted by all. Hope is the dynamic, active first born sister who plants seeds, changes life and produces results. H ope, you see is a path we thread that changes how we see ourselves, changes in what & who we value, it also affects what we do with our time, talents and tr...

Hey Lovelies! I am back and this time with a story!, PULL THE PLUG is a story about how intrinsic and funny emotions, friendship, relationships can be. Don't forget to read, comment & share.........Enjoy! Zha BOBO Omorayo sat across this fine boy and all she can think is Darn! " Bobo yi fine sha , is he going to be a yoruba demon or angel?. She has seen Olawale in church 2 sundays ago when her friend Tania had pointed at him and said "see my boyfriend", she had taken one look at his side view, full connected beard in place and she knew this is the kind of guy Tania would have attracted. Omorayo took a look at herself and her butt out belly and knew this guy may not even give her as much as a side eye (there was a lil jab in her belly pulling her out of the low self-esteem pit she is about to embark on). The next sunday after then Omorayo was jejely teaching her sabbath school when the broda sat in her class with another mutual friend George, she ha...

Happy New Year Lovelies!!!!! Welcome to 2019! I am super excited that we were together in 2018 and here we are in 2019. HALLELUJAH! We made it. This new year i'd like to request for more support even as i appreciate the support I have enjoyed over the years. I promise you represent the little voices in my head more and churn out more interesting posts. We are concluding our Friends Series and this time we are dealing with US i.e you & I, me & you are we good friends? Aisha are you a good friend?, hopefully you are not the toxic friend that others are trying to avoid? If you are this is a new year, abeg CHANGE! Amem?? and incase you don't know how to be a good friend, here are a few pointers, so let's delve right into it. 1. Take a genuine interest in others. I know this can be challenging especially in this our Naija where the hustle is real and frankly we are all OYO . But Dale Carnegie, author of  How to Win Friends and Influence People , said, “Yo...